1, 2, Learn to tie shoes! Your child's practice, along with your patience, will eventually make perfect. 

Around 12 months old, your child can "help" you put shoes on her. Kids are ready to try by themselves between 2- and 3-years-old; tying shoelaces is best left until youngsters are around 5.

1. Take 1 shoelace in 1 hand, the second lace in the other and hold both of them straight up. Then crisscross the laces over each other to make a big X.

2. Fold 1 lace over the other and pull that lace through the bottom half of the X; then pull both of the laces tight until they lie nice and flat against the sneaker.

3. Many kids find that the "bunny ears" method is easier to learn than the 1-loop method that most adults use to tie their shoes. Make 2 loops, 1 with each shoelace.

4. Make an X with the loops, holding the center of the X in place with your thumb and finger. (Kids may have to switch hands for this part.)

5. Fold 1 loop over the other (as you did with the first X) and pull that loop through the bottom half of the X. Now pull both loops tight through the hole to form a bow.
 

Helpful Hints:

• Children develop at different rates. Don't rush it Ñ this is a skill that takes some time to master. Take it one step at a time before moving on to the next. Repetition is important to learning.

• If some of your child's friends can tie their shoes, assure her that she will get it soon Ñ and remind her of the skills she does have.
   

• Once your child starts learning, he will want to do it himself. Allow extra time in the mornings before school to avoid frustration. 
   

• Use flat laces, which are easier to manipulate than round ones.

• Make sure the laces are long enough so they are easy to work with.
   

• Some kids find it easier to learn on the "dress me" dolls or cloth teaching books that include shoelaces. You can find these products at most toy stores.

• For some kids, adult-size shoes and laces are easier to practice on. Offer a pair of your tennies along with your support and encouragement!